Feeling Jaded With Things? Don’t Let Them Get You Down
This message will apply to 97% of the people reading it. How do I know this? Well, I really don’t, but if you go by the cliche phrases used all over the place in marketing world, you’ll hear it come up over and over.
“Why do 97% of people fail?” OR the oppo-same phrase, “How to be part of the 3% who succeed.”
The other day I read an email from one of the many 3%ers that I subscribe to and in their email they say the following:
I don’t use “hype” or BS or “launches”
I think that crap is just an insult to
good people’s intelligence and it’s
a shell game approach to siphoning
as much money from people as fast
as you can and then dumping them
into some “forum” or support ticket site…
That’s not good energy.
It’s not a good way to build anything
long term…
If you are being pessimistic and skeptical you’ll probably think that this is a copy-pasted bit of psyhco-babble that is not an original thought by the current ‘author’. And you just may be right. But do you want to be right and be stuck and poor or do you want to read past the BS (yes they have used launches et al to get them to where they are today)?
If you stick around long enough in this business you begin to grow a BS filter that eventually has no negative emotional response. You se it’s just how things have been done. Raise your hands if you have been on the losing end of the ‘shell games’ mentioned above. So if you have been burned before – probably more than once – then why are you still hanging around?
Do you have sucker stamped on your forehead or do you hope to pass the buck and ’get yours’? Well, I have news for you. If this is where your mind is at, you will always be stuck in the losing end because you are simply not vibrating at the desired frequency range. Put more simply, your mental state sucks. And it will suck your bank account dry too.
I’ve found that if you are consistently doing the right actions and still aren’t succeeding yet, then it’s probably the conversation going on in your head [BELIEF SYSTEM] that is holding you back. No amount of action will be able to overcome a screwed up lack-and-limitation mindset.
If this is YOU, my advice is to FULL STOP and take a break from being busy and stop avoiding the problem. Spend as much uninterrupted time as you need to work on adjusting your frame of mind. Visualization of your ideal life is a great place to start. Ignore the side of your brain that wants to shout, “but this is just a fantasy, not your life as it is now” and have fun.
Remember when you were a kid how effortless it was to play imagination? That’s what you need to do now. Be like a child and remember your dreams if you have forgotten them. You start where you are now.