Whether it’s positive life experiences or unpleasant experiences, we’re having one or the other.

You could think of yourself as one of the two ends of a magnet – the north or south pole.

Are you an optimistic happy person with thoughts of abundance and unlimited potential or are you someone who is a bit miserable and negative, cynical with a lack and limitation or victim outlook.  We can flip-flop back and forth at times depending on circumstances that occur in our life.

Which end of the spectrum you fit on depends on your upbringing, your life experiences and how you interpret them.  This is how your belief system is molded. What is the dialogue  going on in your head saying about things?

Most of us have been inundated with a lot of negative programming growing up. Things like no, don’t do that, you can’t be/do/have that, and so on.   We seek out courses, techniques  and experts to reverse and reprogram our minds to think in a better, more fulfilling way. We change our environment and the types of people we hang out with.

Some of the best advice is to follow your own path, discover and pursue your passions so you end up doing what you  love to do.  Finding out what your purpose in life is another version of this advice.  That to me can sound like pre-destiny if taken the wrong way. But when you discover your passions, your purpose should fall into place.  If it doesn’t feel like a fit, then you need to reassess what you think you are passionate about.

So many people – and this is a tragedy – don’t know what they want.  This is like sitting in the passenger seat of your own car and giving up your personal power to the whims of the world.  It’s said that if you don’t know what you want then you end up taking whatever comes along – and that is rarely a good match for you.  In fact, it’s a downright insult to your true self.

Free your mind of unlimiting thoughts and allow yourself to discover what it is that you want. You ARE allowed to change your mind if you decide to want something else down the road. Don’t worry that you might make a wrong choice or get stuck in something you decide later you don’t want.

For some of us, we have an enormous mental block that keeps them from discovering what we want.  It can literally keep us from having a coherent thought process. One cause of this dilemma is that deep down we have a belief that we don’t deserve it or don’t think we can realistically achieve it.

This goes back to faulty programming. If what you think is unobtainable, then  try starting with small achievements. Something as mundane and silly as deciding what you want to eat for lunch.  Not what you feel you SHOULD be eating, but allow yourself to have something you want to have. Sure it’s simple and doesn’t require a lot of thought or work, but the underlying principle is basically the same.  The bigger goal might require more action and thought and time, but it can be done.

Now you could be like I was in the beginning and just find it
difficult to hold a picture in your mind of all the things you
want to manifest.

Being able to clearly visualize your end result with emotion,
changes your daydreams or wishes into goals you strongly
believe are the true picture of your near future.

But not everyone can simply hold a clear picture or visualization
in their mind so I have a few hints to help you today…

1. Get clear about what you want and write these things down on
paper into short, powerful, present tense affirmations.

2. Take the hard work out of visualizing your goals by creating a
vision board or Mind Movie where you reinforce your
affirmations with photos of the car you drive, the house you want,
the partner you’re with, the people you help etc.

Having visual, photographic prompts to look at really helps with
this process.

3. To help with the “emotional” part of this process make sure
you have peak posture while looking at your vision board/photos
or watching your Mind Movie…head up, shoulders back, back
straight, and breathe deeply and even jump around at the same
time if you like.

These actions completely anchor a positive, joyful emotion to
your goals which in turn produce a positive, joyful vibration.

4. Music is one of the fastest ways to attach emotion to your
goals. Play your most inspiring, motivating, emotion invoking
music while looking at your vision board or watching your Mind
Movie. Music is a personal preference.

5. When you visualize it is important that you see through your
eyes as if you are experiencing your goals first hand.

6. Get started now. If you haven’t done so already download the
pre-made Mind Movies we sent you that you relate to you the
most.

http://bit.ly/mindmoviez

When people have misplaced trust in someone they see as an authority figure, they shirk their personal responsibility for their own life and the actions or inactions they choose.

When this occurs, they can get themselves into trouble.  They allow the collective voice – some might call it peer pressure – to override and drown out their own voice.

Where, oh where was their mindset?

To me this illustrates how most people are followers and allow someone else’s judgment overrule their own innate wisdom. Individual boundries are dangerously overridden by pressure to conform.

“I’m feeling pretty bad, maybe I should stop and get out.  Well, everyone else is still in here. I’ll look weak if I leave.  I’m in better shape than many of them, I should be able to take it.  We’re safe here, right?  They are incouraging us to sit it out cause it’ll be so worth it.  Breakthr…”

“Group think” is a phrase that pops in my head. One thing that I doubt very much WASN’T going thru their mind was any sort of Critical Thinking.

According to the article, [read it here - James Ray 2 deaths in Sedona], over 50 people had paid $9000-$10000 for the privilege of attending this 5 day retreat.  Hmm…. So James was charging $1000 a head per day for a take of over $500,000 for a week’s work.

Why do I bring up the money?  It makes me question the mentality of the attendees.  Do they think that the price of going somehow insulates them from potential harm?  As in, if it’s expensive, it must be good and safe.

What a load of dookie.  That is a peeve I have with the industry.   Any punk ass on the street (many of them came from there) can orchestrate a ‘big breakthrough success’ fabricated or real, and then that’s all the credentials they need to justify such absurd fees for the privilege of being in the presence of their hubris. I’m not signaling out Mr Ray nor am I implying one way or the other if he falls into this catagory. However, it pays to be aware that this industry does attract more than it’s fair share of charlatans and for that, one MUST not lose connection to their inner voice.

It’s incredible to be able to command that kind of speaking money – like ex presidents and celebs.  But when you get right down to it,  it’s a bit nutty. It’s one thing to think highly of yourself and what you have to value, but it’s another to simply bilk people out of their money simply because you can.

Maybe it’s just a numbers game.  After all, big music acts only charge 20-300 for a ticket, but they have 1000s of concert goers, whereas these seminars and speaking engagements have to make up for the lack of numbers by charging 10-100x’s more money.

Update: This article really lays it out: The New Age Sweat Lodge Death Controversy.

If you like Bob Proctor’s style of storytelling/teaching, then you’ll enjoy this 2 part video of him explaining how he went from broke and unhappy as a young man to how he got to where he is today.  Inspiring, Uplifting, Motivating… check it out here:

Bob Proctor’s Personal Story Of How He Made It.

Like Deepak Chopra talking about going into the GAP, we must allow ourselves to enter the Vortex of our desires which are waiting for us to ‘snap out of it’ so to speak.

They’re waiting.

Waiting for more money to drop into their bank accounts.

Waiting for a special relationship.

Waiting for a career they love to magically appear
while they waste years in a job they hate.

Waiting for the life of their dreams to begin.

Watch This And Quit Waiting

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It’s sad that so many people miss out on this.

Because a simple shift in thinking flips the switch.
It gives you exactly what it takes to stop wasting
your potential and take action.

Fact is, all it takes is the decision to live a powerful
life YOU control, instead of settling for what everyone
else considers “normal.”  And that means…

**No more feeling like the train left without you.

**No more struggling to get by on tiny money.

**No more being alone (unless you want to be!)

**No more frustration, worry, or feeling powerless.

I find most people I share this with are more than ready
to blast through fear and unlock their own personal
floodgate of abundance and happiness.

If you’re one of them…

Choose success instead of mediocrity

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Starting today, you can begin to work less, accomplish
more, enjoy every minute of your life, and even make
more money.

You can do it, once you tap into the “engine” that
fuels your incredible power.

I know this may sound pretty fantastic.

But the list of successful, wealthy entrepreneurs and
leaders who have used this powerful secret is inspiring:
Albert Einstein, Plato, Newton, Beethoven and
Shakespeare, to name a few.

And This Guy

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So you’re in good company.

Isn’t it about time you turn your dreams into reality?

Yours in abundance,

Terry

P.S. This peak performance expert has a really awesome way of explaining how you can turn from being a “prisoner” of your life to a “volunteer” for abundance. You really need this, especially these days…

Volunteer For Success

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